30 Something And Dating

It use to be that people would date, find the person they wanted to spend their life with, get married and have kids by 30. These days there are careers, traveling, friends and finding ones self, and then if there is still time left, dating and hopefully finding that one person that will complete your life, and more often than not singles are finding themselves approach if not into their 30’s and wondering where the time went. While women get a little more of an itch to get married and have kids than men, more and more men are wanting to settle down and find the right girl before they get too old too!

Consider online dating. You have the opportunity to read hundreds of profiles and look at hundreds of pictures in search of that “someone” that will be right for you. Maybe she will live in the same city you do…maybe she will live across the country or even in another country altogether. You aren’t limited to only those women that you come in contact with personally. The possibilities are  endless.

“Is online dating safe”, you ask. “Aren’t the online dating sites made up entirely of perverts, sexual predators and weirdoes in assorted shapes and sizes?” the answer is, no they aren’t. Not anymore anyway. That was true when online dating first came on the scene but now it is mainstream. It’s as safe as you make it using common sense and sound judgment. Use the same caution that you would when meeting any stranger. Don’t give your real name, address or phone number until you feel safe doing so. Don’t rush into a face-to-face meeting until you are confident and then make the first meeting in a public place and during daylight hours. Give it a try…Mrs. Right might be just a few mouse clicks away.