Asking The Right Questions-For The Men

So your all set to start dating, you have your list or idea of the perfect girl, have picked a couple of different dating sites to put your profile on and now you are ready to send and recieve messages. But what do you say and how do you respond to questions that are asked of you? What questions are the right ones to ask the person(s) you are interested in? Make sure you have this all figured out before hand so that you are not getting too personal too soon, or not asking the right questions and wasting your time in the end.

After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, “What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?”  Listen carefully to her answers.  She’s going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.

Next you should ask her, “What do you really think about online dating?”  Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating online and help you to avoid making the same mistakes.

Now for the all-important one…..”What caused the break up of your last relationship?”  If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect.  If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same.  If she says the breakup was mutual or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer.  Move forward but always with caution.

Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time.