Breaking The Ice With, “Kinoing”

Consider this concept: If a man goes in for a kiss without any prior physical contact, can it truly be considered a genuine and comfortable embrace? The likelihood is that it will come across as awkward and forced. In simpler terms, kinoing is essentially just touching. It is successful because it serves multiple important purposes in flirting – exhibiting control, establishing trust, and displaying interest. The key to making kinoing work is known as escalation in the world of pick-up artists.

To achieve this, start slow and gradually escalate the physical contact. Start with confident but gentle touches to the shoulder or upper arm. Once she has become comfortable with your touch, move on to more intimate areas such as her hand or knee. Observe her response and body language closely, and ideally, let her take the lead. Continue escalating the physical contact until the only logical next step is to go in for a kiss.