Are You Attractive To Women?
What exactly does it mean to be attractive TO women. Well, while first impressions (outer appearance) is important, even the best looking guy can be turned down if his personality isn’t what that particular woman is looking for. More times than not I am sure you have seen an ok looking guy with a great looking woman and have wondered to yourself, ‘what does he have that I don’t’? well the answer to that question is very simple, he has charm and personality!
You don’t have to be the best looking guy in the room to grab the attention of a hot girl, honestly! If you are charming, and have a great personality, if you don’t fall all over yourself trying to get her attention, but can smile across the room and let her know you are interested, and if you know how to flirt without going overboard and then take a step back and be outgoing she is going to be interested.
More often than not the best looking guy in the room will grab her attention first, but he won’t be able to keep it for long, because in most cases he is “working the room” and doesn’t really care who wants to get with him as long as he ends up with some hottie, or close by the end of the night, and honestly do you really want a girl who is just going to be DTF (as is the new termonology for “hooking up”) ?
If you are looking for long term then you are going to want to stay away from these kinds of girls because that is all they are looking for, or if they are looking for long term they are going about it the wrong way and have low self esteem, which in itself is hard to get around, they tend to be needy and clingy, not something you want because with that comes jealousy, something you definitely don’t want to deal with!
So, when you look at other guys, who are average looking and see girls just clammering to be around them or hang on their every word, think about what it is they have that you don’t, what are they doing that you are not. Could you be more outgoing and social? If so work on it, become that guy that the girls want to be with!